When a woman says no, it means that she’s not interested in you.
Instead of pushing and hanging around her just to make her change her
mind, you should ask yourself the reason why.
She may say no because you are not her type. You should go look for
your type. No matter how hot you think you are, some women will never go
on a date with you. You are not God’s gift to all women. Be humble. Go
look for your type.
Here are some reasons a woman says no to a man
1. Selfishness and hatred of men. The modern big city
society, both men and women, are awfully anxious about their own lives
only and do not care about other people’s feelings. They believe their
sexual attractiveness must be sold at the highest price. Women of the
type love to humiliate men and make them feel ill at ease.
2.
Man’s looks betray he is short of cash. Women pay particular attention
to men’s financial status. So, those males who look like having not
enough money stand a poor chance of getting YES to their invitation for a
cup of coffee. Men should better seek acquaintance with women who look as well-to-do as they are.
3.
She is not alone. A woman may turn down other men’s invitations in case
she already has a partner and wants no more acquaintances.
4.
She is a sophisticated coquette. A great number of women with low
self-appraisal and also married women belong to the category as it is
important for them to know they are sexually attractive and to get
confirmations of it. They may behave as if they would not mind to get
acquainted with new men but in fact they do not at all plan to date
them. These women just need to flatter their pride and feel their
superiority.
5. She has some emotional problems (may be she is a
hysterical girl?). This is a category of women who once dealt with mean
men and who are absolutely sure that males are the cause of all troubles
in the world. Such a woman will turn down your invitation just because
you are a male and for no other reason.
6. Man’s first step in getting acquainted was wrong.
Some women like strangers clap them on the back and say ‘Hi, babe’ while
others treat the manner as brazen impudence and will try not to deal
with you even if finds you attractive. So, men should mind woman’s
social status and education to choose a proper approach for getting
acquainted with her. An approach suitable for a market seller will not
work with a doctor or a teacher.
7. A bad moment
for acquaintances. A woman may turn down man’s invitations owing to
circumstances beyond the man’s control. Probably she has some serious
problems at home or in the office, or she feels bad and realizes that
she looks not very nice on this particular day. But for the troubles she
would have probably said YES to your invitation.
8.
She is probably still suffering from breaking up with her previous
partner. If a woman invited for a date says she wants no dates and needs
some time to look into herself it means she is still suffering as has
recently broken up with her partner. She wants no new romances. In this
case, first try to become friends with her and probably later the
relations will become more romantic.
9. You are
too diffident. Women will never agree to date men who look absolutely
diffident and dumb when making attempts to get acquainted. The best
thing a diffident man can expect in this situation is winning the status
of a friend. Men must be confident but never rude or familiar when
striking up acquaintances with women.
10. A woman just does not like you, that’s all. And nothing can be done in this case. Tastes differ.
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